Almost everyone's being pressured to be in a relationship. Setting romantic relationship as the number one priority in their life. As for me, I want to focus more on setting the right goals. I want to become a better "ME" first off I want to pass all my subjects this sem. Second is I want to be closer with my family. That's what's keeping me busy this time.
We're not getting any younger and I've been in a couple of serious relationships. I did not involve myself with short-term relationships btw. From the start I believe that commitment is a BIGDEAL. Being someone's girlfriend is not just hobby that you can focus on when you're bored. I still think that the right time for commitment is when you're already complete and you know your priorities. People say the lines like "You complete me" and "Ikaw mundo ko" Here's what I'll say to that ULOL NIYO Hahahaha. What are some of the reasons why people break-up? Maybe because they don't have enough time, they still want to enjoy their "youth", they keep on clashing because they have different views about things and a lot more issues.
Why not just enjoy the friendship with the opposite sex without thinking that they can be a potential boyfriend/girlfriend. You shouldn't rush into falling in love. Like what my friend said the other day "Don't chase, PACE". Nothing worth having comes easy. Right?
I think being in a relationship when you're still studying is a distraction. Well YES for me it is. I know myself too well and I know that I get easily distracted. Two reasons for that :
-We know that fights are inevitable in a relationship and that's something that might take your attention from focusing in your studies.
-TIME. When you're in a relationship of course you have to find time for your partner. And hello, pagtulog nga hirap na akong hanapan ng oras eh?! Oras pa kaya sa boyfriend?
SIMPLE POINTS HAHA
I believe that it's better if you use the this time to become a better person
I want to be the right person for the right man at the right time :)
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